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Check you syslog Do some hardware benchmarks checking your CPU/RAM and do some I/O benchmarks for your disks.
Reinstall your OS... verify 3-4 reboots that the OS install works perfect. then remove apache and other pre-installed software (you may also do a minimal expert install). Then repeat VestaCP installation and post your observations